New York Divorce and Property Issues

New York Divorce Preparation

By Staff Writer

Planning for a potential New York Divorce or Separation is a complex issue. You may be taken by surprise when your spouse announces that he or she wants a Separation and Divorce. Worse yet, you could come home one day to an empty house and a note, with your spouse and children gone. If that happens, you will be entirely unable to undertake any planning. On the other hand, your spouse may have planned well and you may find that assets have been siphoned off or dissipated over time, or that a move was carefully orchestrated with the assistance of counsel in an attempt to bootstrap a Custody issue. Although that kind of orchestrated devious planning happens infrequently, it does occur and should serve as a lesson to anyone who is considering Separation or Divorce: planning and tactics are critical and should be undertaken by everyone.

To ensure that you are doing the most thorough planning and using the best legal tactics, you may need the assistance of la divorce attorney.  An experienced divorce attorney has seen it all. He or she has had enough cases to know what tactics will be used by the other side, what tactics work, and what tactics might best fit your situation. Engaging in tactics and planning does not mean that you are setting up Divorce warfare. It means you know your facts and your goals and you have carefully planned how to get where you want to go. A good settlement negotiation does not happen without a lot of thought and planning. Many clients overlook the real value that they will receive from their attorney. In fact many clients will complain that they did all of the legwork in putting paperwork together or in feeding information to their attorney, only to be confronted with a large bill, and they ask why. The why is found in the attorney’s experience level and the attorney’s ability to set up your planning and tactics to obtain the result that you want.

The tactics and planning that you should undertake before New York Divorce or Separation are very important. There are some things that every person will need to do, like obtaining all of your economic records. Many planning and tactical issues will be very specific to your own case and the facts of your marriage and your situation. Whatever your individual situation, your planning should take place after a careful consideration of all of your facts and a thorough discussion of your goals with your attorney.

Two people in the same situation might use different tactics because they have different end goals. If negotiating a settlement and not going to Court are important to you, your attorney might undertake different tactics than if you want a Judge to make the decisions. Your tactics and planning will also be effected if you and your spouse are in substantial conflict and will not be able to resolve your issues without Court intervention. If your attorney knows all of your facts and your goals, your attorney will be able to fashion a planning and tactical outline that benefits you.

Since New York Divorce is often a battle over finances, having all of the possible information about your finances is critical. You should have copies of at least your last three years income tax returns and your and your spouse’s w-2's for each year. Those figures are critical to any early application to the Court for child or spousal support. If you do not know where those documents are, you may request copies from the IRS. If you are in a situation where you do not want your spouse to know that you are undertaking Divorce planning, have those documents sent to your work address, a friend, or to your attorney.

In addition to your tax returns, you will need information about all of your assets and debts. If you have investment accounts or charge accounts, you will want copies of statements that cover a substantial time period. If any of those accounts pre-date your marriage, you will need copies of the statements from prior to your marriage. These will show what part of the asset or debt was accumulated during your marriage.

If Child Custody will be a disputed issue in your case, you will need to prepare an outline for your attorney of how your children have been cared for by you and/or your spouse. If you have shared parenting responsibilities, or if you have been the primary parent caring for your children, that outline will be important in presenting all of the facts to the Court that decides temporary Custody. If you have not shared or undertaken most of the parenting responsibilities but want shared or primary Custody, you will need to provide your attorney with all of the facts that would convince a Court that you should still be awarded a shared or primary parenting schedule.

An outline of the history of your marriage will be critical to other issues that your  divorce attorney will need to consider. Many attorneys request that you provide some sort of written outline to assist them. If yours does not, prepare on anyway. The work that you put into that outline will help your attorney and save attorney time in preparing for your case. That savings in time will translate into a savings on attorneys fees for you.

If spousal support will be requested, your divorce attorney needs to have a history of marital earnings and spending, and current expenses. If you or your spouse will be contesting grounds for Divorce, your attorney will need an outline of those issues. If you are the party seeking a Divorce, put together a detailed list of all of the incidents in your marriage that you believe entitle you to a Divorce. If you are contesting the Divorce, put together a detailed history of your marriage and outline why you believe your spouse’s claim for Divorce is not credible or fair.

The more time that you spend gathering, preparing and outlining critical facts and information for your attorney, the less time you will spend in your attorney’s office discussing those issues with your attorney. That translates into less time spent on basic fact gathering and more of your resources spent on tactics and planning.